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Nothing has made me crack up more in the past few weeks than Selena Gomez. Aside from her tone-deaf statements, the way she has paraded the boyfriend from the October Tell All on social media, was as chaotic as one would expect from Sel Sel.

Selena is back at it again with her unwarranted breakdowns on social media, this time on Instagram where she drags her fans, confirms her relationship with Benny Blanco, announces she got Botox, and of course hates on Justin & Hailey Bieber! 

You know it’s not going to be a Selena post without 3 things: social media meltdowns, the typical threatening of a social media break that she never seems to be able to take, and the dragging of her ex-boyfriends; more specifically the dragging of Hailey and Justin Bieber.

This will be funny so get ready to laugh and wonder what is truly wrong with Selena and where does she get the entitlement to act like this?

This is just a teaser to the December BLOGMAS schedule so be on the lookout for that.

Selena’s New Boyfriend

On October 4th, 2023, we posted a Spooky October Tell All

For this Tell All we said the following:

A few weeks later on October 27, we revealed that blind item to be about no other than our fave toxic gal, Selena Gomez. Later in a November teaser for her Selena + Chef, she hinted that she’s really happy because she has a new crush. 

She then revealed on December 7th that her boyfriend is Benny Blanco. 

And yes this was a Scandalous Media exclusive as it was first said here.

On December 7th, Selena started commenting on this post from November, speculating on a rumor that she was dating Benny. She comments on the post saying:

Cue Her Oxygen—Shading The Biebers

Then, cause we all know Selena can’t live if she doesn’t remind us how badly her exes treated her, in the same comment thread she says:

The “better than anyone I’ve ever been with” shining star is actually very good friends with none other than Justin Bieber. 

Benny is a producer and has worked on both music for Justin and Selena. He was hanging around Justin a lot when he was working with him during 2021 and 2022. 

Fans are annoyed with Benny because he seemingly dissed Selena and favored Justin in the past. In October 2020, Benny appeared on the Zach Sang Show and reportedly took a dig at Selena by saying that Justin is a real artist unlike these cookie-cutter pop artists who release makeup.

During this time Selena’s Rare Beauty had just launched a month prior. 

She really knows how to pick them. 

Here are Selena’s 12 thousand comments replying to fans defending Benny as if she owes him her life. 

Uh okay.

It gets worse. 

She confirms that she and Benny have been dating for six months which is on par with the information we revealed in October, saying she has a boyfriend that kept her smiling at the September 2023 VMAs.

Notice what we say in the Tell All Reveal… she’s dated NUMEROUS people secretly but she’ll only talk about Justin publicly:

Also if she has been dating the so-called love of her life for 6 months why is SHE STILL MAKING SINGLE TIKTOKS DURING THIS TIME? 

Aside from proving us right of course. Benny isn’t the only person Selena dated this year, but he did stick out to us when she went around saying she has a boyfriend.

Selena Single Gomez

She was in interviews fully talking about being single just 3 months ago. And I get it if she didn’t wanna say anything or wasn’t ready to talk but it’s not like she stayed silent on social media, she continued making being single her entire brand. 

Do you guys understand how wild this is? This is why I’ll always believe she’s attention-seeking before anything else because she was releasing tiktoks about being single just a few months ago.

She was even releasing tiktoks about having bad taste in men just a few months ago. But yet she said she and Benny have been together for 6 months. 

This is proof that most of the time these celebrities will feed you guys a public narrative because that’s what's benefiting them at the moment.

So don’t blindly trust and believe everything they say because oftentimes they have a whole other life behind closed doors. 

When my source told me Selena has a new boyfriend, I didn’t think much of it because I’ve been told behind the scenes about so many of Selena’s private relationships.

Ever since 2020, I can list at least 3 different times sources have confirmed to me that she has been in a real relationship. I just didn’t think she was gonna go off on everyone for Benny Blanco’s sake. 

Also, she never goes public with these relationships because she’s too busy milking and reminiscing about her heartbreak with Justin Bieber which happened 1900 years ago. 

The Meltdown Continues

Either Benny is holding a gun to her head or giving her the best album ever imaginable and she’s is embedded to him.

Nothing can explain this meltdown, she admits she got Botox just to defend Benny like you guys have to understand how funny this is. 

Someone goes said “her choice in men” and she responded:

The Double Standard

Imagine if Justin or the Weeknd did this… they would experience backlash so hard their symptoms would turn physical and they wouldn’t remember their names. 

Like on a real note, it’s not funny or cute how Selena can get away with anything but everyone else gets lashings for breathing. But I been told yall she’s sadistic in the sense that she likes seeing hate for what she’s done and she loves seeing it disappear shortly after when everyone invents excuses for her unstable self.

Let’s not forget the Hailey Bieber hate train that started all because of a tiktok and some confusion about eyebrows and that was enough to send companies and all of social media into one of the craziest hate trains I’ve ever seen. 

And nothing is worse than seeing those same people who participated in the hate suddenly comment things like, “waittttt I actually kinda like Hailey now.”  

Do you know how annoying Selena has to be to actively turn the public back on herself and make them wanna support Hailey? Like that’s hilarious.

She Has A Problem

Someone like Selena can keep acting like this and shading everyone, calling them the worst and that they all sucked and yet her fans will find a way to call the rest of us insane but not her. 

And the funniest part about this is that her deluded fans are in shock over how she’s acting, some even saying “Was she always like this and we made her perfect in our heads or did she change?”

News flash: she was always like this, you guys just decided to crown her as Saint Mary and are now facing the consequences. 

Go read a post from 2013 or 2014 and see how anything we called her out for and explained back then has been more than crystal clear 10 years later.

I’ve had so many high profile people DM on Instagram saying “oh sh!t your media blog was right all along.”

Also, nothing is more annoying than when fans destroy someone over a shade attempt here and there, but yet are okay with their fave destroying a person over and over again. 

I see this happening a lot with Selena’s fans and Taylor Swift's fans. Both of them can cause hate trains that are lethal and still be crowned the “Girls With Hearts Made Out of Gold” awards, but anyone else doing 1% of that, has to be reminded of it over and over again. 

Pick a side: either you forget every shade attempt made by everyone in Hollywood, I mean it’s not like these people are paying your bills you can afford to let go, or hold everyone accountable at the same exact level. 

The way Selena replies back to her fans in a condescending “haha you losers know nothing” (she’s not wrong) is exactly how she’s been described to me all these years.

What’s the off part? You having self-esteem issues or decent men trying to pursue you? Her comments are also very condescending if you couldn’t tell yet there is more as you will soon see. 

ha-ha-ha you’ve had much more than that baby girl. 

What?

Also let’s talk about her savior complex because tell me why she says the same two lines anytime someone is trying to clock her.

She doesn’t ever defend her nonfamous friends, let’s not forget the hate train Selena’s fans sent to her best friend Raquel because they thought Raquel was secretly out to get Selena.

Not once did Selena chime in and say, “hey guys stop sending my friend who is there for me more than you know massive hate.”  

Nope, she’ll only drag her own name and Taylor’s when it comes to sending other people hate. 

Taylena’s Pap Strolls

And speaking of Selena dragging out Taylor, have you guys noticed how much Selena and Taylor have been hanging out again? It seems to me that these two are trying to benefit from as much friendship PR as they can get. 

Recently whenever Selena is getting massive hate for her actions, she pulls out her strongest card; dinner with Taylor Swift. 

She did it when she got massive hate for her insensitive comments about a literal genocide, and did it again after harassing her fans for hours straight.

And she did it while looking incredible— the highlights, the outfit???

New Face

But again, a lot of people have realized on social media that she pops up with a new face every 3 business days. The work she gets done isn’t subtle anymore.

More Oxygen Shade

I don’t know what's worse, fighting with your fans for hours about your new boyfriend or a majority of her comments having an undertone about Justin Bieber. 

Notice how she says, “I’ll never be with an F boy again” making it singular instead of plural just in case she thought we’d ever associate her with anyone other than Justin. 

That’s TRUE. She is speaking #facts, because her fans will cause a drift between her and them because they are so unnaturally delusional and so unnaturally obsessed with painting certain narratives on her. 

Now for the comment that takes the award home! For best comment of the night goes to this person who trolls Selena with her own words and Selena not remembering her genius. 

Feeding Her Words Back to Her

Back in 2016, Selena had yet another meltdown on Instagram but this time it was under Justin Bieber’s post with Sophie Richie defending her against racism and bullying.

He says he’s gonna make his Instagram private if everyone keeps bullying her and she says:

Her own words were forced back into her mouth, ah I couldn’t even write a better story.

The fans she’s defending in question are the same fans she’s harassing by the way.

It’s so hypocritical because when Justin was defending his friend, Selena came rambling about “Don't be mad at your fans they love you,” but yet here she is fighting her own fans and going off the rails for 2 hours straight defending Benny Blanco with her life. 

Tone Deaf

Now considering the climate we’re in right now with all the issues going around with the world, the general public is tired of celebrities and especially tired of their silence.

When a person criticized her need to ramble online defending Benny but staying silent over important topics, she showed us how much she just doesn’t care. 

You’re. Right.

What does this even mean? You’ll go off the rails defending this man but stay silent over real issues and you’re admitting to it? It’s giving Selena dismissing the Black Lives Movement and telling the world “you don’t know what I do” yet still doing nothing. 

Even worse than doing nothing, she had someone spread news to Pop Crave saying she donated to BLM only for the co-founder of the BLM movement to clock Pop Crave calling them out for the lies.

Same thing happened with the genocide in Palestine.

Instead of NOT donating, she masks her donation to the IDF by posting on Rare Beauty telling fans to donate to help Gaza civilians when really it was to an organization that supports the IDF.

So understand this—I’d rather Selena stay the fck silent than go on these unhinged “idc rants” or even worse, mask her silence with this nasty behavior. But what do I know right? I’ve only seen this pattern of Selena’s for like a decade now.

She’s so entitled it’s insane because with her chest she feels like we all owe her something and she owes the world absolutely nothing. This isn’t new behavior for Selena. She’s done and said things like this over and over and over before. 

I’m not even shocked myself, this is what—the 20th post I made reporting on her meltdowns that all stem because a 16-year-old JB broke her heart?? 

If Justin was acting just like her I’d be like, wow amazing Jelena go off; you’re both so messed up but there’s a difference between having a point and letting it go vs. possibly having a point and reminding us about it for years straight. 

The majority of her fans have allowed her behavior and have praised it. Again look at what happened to Hailey. Selena spent more time shading Justin and Hailey than she has spent talking to her own fans.  

I saw some of her fans saying, okay yeah Selena is unhinged but it’s not like she’s hurting anyone.

Unhinged Sel

Let me be very clear; Selena being unhinged has led to so many hate trains over the years. It does hurt people, it’s not like she’s peacefully acting this way. She does it because she seeks attention. She’s trying her hardest to get another March 2023 hate train going. 

And all of her fans are very confused over her actions and entitlement, it’s almost as if you guys have perfected a version of her in your head and couldn’t see the truth. 

Like I said, this isn’t gonna be a Selena post without no Justin and Hailey shade so let’s queue that segment: 

Someone says, “Lmao Karma is real, I hope she marries him and we and Jailey will finally be free.” A fan replies, “Lol this is such a dumbass comment. Nobody sincerely gives a shit about Jailey or Jelena, please stop associating her ex in everything.” AND SHE LIKES THE COMMENT. 

She’ll gaslight you into not associating her with her ex, yet she just made three or four different comments in the same hour about her ex. She cracks me up truly. 

I’m not sure if this is a real comment or not, not like it matters she has already commented 70 times but this one says, “TO YOU?? That’s funny. I do everything for you. Please for the love of god let me be happy.” The capital letters. 

While all of this is happening she posts a selfie with Benny and then posts her wearing a B ring on her ring finger. 

And now a day later right as I’m saying this, she is walking around with the B ring on her ring finger, and posing with it on Instagram. 

She’s so funny, but now her fans have another issue, they all think the ring is $9 on SHEIN, with someone writing, “It’s the money he made off Single Soon”  

I don’t believe the ring is from SHEIN but then who knows 

And just like clockwork, Selena announces that she’s taking a social media break that will once again last 30 minutes. 

She says, “Never trolling. I’m leaving insta for a while until I have work again. I just stand up for what I believe in, I have no shame in doing that. I love my fans more than anything in the world.” 

And I kid you not it lasted maybe 9 mins until she posted on her story

And then before you knew it, she was posting comments under Ariana Grande’s post to I guess distract a little from her psycoticness

Seblenny <3

And this post ends with what you wanted and more—our fave new couple Seblenny were spotted together. 

This is the first time since JB and The Weeknd where Selena has claimed a relationship in public

Her instagram comments were hilarious yet shocking because we’ve never really seen her be so open about her relationships if they have nothing to do with her previous ones. 

Under all of this light comedy I do hope that in a way Selena being so forward with Benny means she might actually open herself up to experience a new relationship and I do hope Benny is as great as she swears he is. 

But understand Selena’s manic behavior isn’t often a good sign

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